About me
I’m not your woman if you want to learn how to manipulate him into wanting you more.
I’m the woman who’ll hold up the mirror and say: „This is exactly where you keep yourself stuck in a loop, forever staying the woman who (thinks she) acts like a high value woman — and yet keeps attracting the men she considers low value.“
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MY STORY
I have dated men, women, open, monogamous, poly — for around 15 years now. My longest relationship? Was my first boyfriend back when I was 14.
Pretty shitty way to introduce myself as a Dating Coach, right? Because in the industry, most Dating Coaches have husbands and it makes perfect sense to book them because they have what you want.
Or do they?
In this industry, they sell you embodiment as: „Look!! I have a thriving (longterm) relationship, I am walking the talk!!“
But what if true embodiment actually means challenging the (fear driven) misconception of being in a relationship is the only valid credential?
What is true embodiment — if not ending every dating phase with someone who isn‘t a 100% match?
If there is one thing I learned in my life, especially when it comes to relationships: All that glitters is not gold.
A longterm relationship that actually thrives? F*cking hard work. Someone who’s entire business model relies on their relationship to maintain a certain image? Their reality behind closed doors rarely matches the exterior they portray.
I AM NOT A RELATIONSHIP COACH.
I am a Dating Coach.
I am not the one who helps you navigate your problems in the relationship you’re already in. I am the woman who helps you avoid that disaster in the first place.
The disaster of settling for less.
The disaster of mothering someone’s grown ass son.
The disaster of never fully letting yourself be seen because you’ve shielded yourself behind a wall of „a high value woman’s standards“.
MY EDGE — YOUR BENEFIT
I don’t fit the stereotype. I never did.
And especially not the „high value woman“ stereotype that’s being sold to you: Sit tall. Look pretty. Be demure.
Wear heels, do your make up, go get your nails done.
Luxury Items only. Drink Moët or Veuve Clicquot.
Yet, men treat me more queenly than the majority of the women who are so desperately trying to be treated like a high value woman — still performing for male approval, to be chosen. Without even noticing.
Working with me? Is where that performance ends and turns into true, magnetic, irresistible embodiment that has him at your feet, naturally.
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OF COURSE CODES
Of course he plans dates, pays for them and remembers what I tell him in detail. Presence, effort and generosity (in all areas) are a minimum requirement to enter my realm in the first place.
Of course he goes to his knees to clean my pants after we walked through the muddiest, most beautiful forest. Obsession and worship are the norm in my realm.
Of course he comes over to do handiwork when I ask him to. And of course, I shower him with gratitude after. Expressing desires unapologetically and showing gratefulness accordingly are the ground pillars my realm is built upon.
Of course I have no issue receiving.
Of course I simply say „Thank you“ instead of spiraling into „What could I possibly give back??“.
Of course men are completely and utterly obsessed with my energy without me trying — simply for being who I am.
All this, without manipulating or trying too hard.
All this, without studying content on „how to talk to him so he‘s obsessed“ for 3h daily.
MY BACKGROUND
B.Sc. Psychology (Ruprecht-Karls-Universität, Heidelberg)
M.Sc. Clinical Psychology & Psychotheapy (in progress)
Personal & Embodied Master in The Art of Receiving™
Several other qualifications in Yoga, Ceremony & Ritual Work,
as well as Shadow & Archetypal Work
